Parenting Through Cannabis Legalization in Connecticut
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Adult use of cannabis is now legal in Connecticut, and retail sales will officially begin in January 2023. However, the new law’s impact on teens and adolescents—who are most at risk for developing Cannabis Use Disorder—remains to be seen. Here’s how you can help steer kids away from underage use and keep them safe from CUD.
As states continue to legalize cannabis use, societal views of it have softened; the media sometimes even depicts it as a rite of passage for young people. For parents and educators, it’s become more difficult to convey the risks and dangers of cannabis use, particularly underage cannabis use. That’s why it’s especially important now to develop strategic prevention messaging and to model thoughtful, responsible behaviors at home. By helping kids choose not to use cannabis, we can prevent countless cases of substance use disorder.
About Cannabis Use Disorder
Many people believe that marijuana is not addictive, but that’s a misconception. Around 10% of cannabis users develop Cannabis Use Disorder (CUD), and this risk is 4-7% greater for young people than for adults. Those with CUD may develop a tolerance, prompting them to use increasing amounts of cannabis, and they may experience cravings and withdrawal symptoms between uses. They may also find it difficult or even impossible to stop using cannabis, despite its impact on their health or problems it may cause at school, work, or in relationships.
Know the Connecticut Cannabis Laws
A 2016 study in Washington state—where adult use cannabis had already been legal for four years—found that one-third of parents incorrectly believed that the minimum legal age for cannabis use was 18, rather than 21. This underlines how important it is to learn about the local laws from trustworthy sources, and to fact check the information you come across.
In Connecticut, it’s legal for adults (age 21 and up) to possess 1.5 ounces of cannabis. At home (and while transporting it home), adults may also have up to 5 ounces stored in a locked container. In the car, cannabis must be locked in the glovebox or the trunk.
Despite its legalization, cannabis can’t be used just anywhere. Even in places where alcohol, vaping, and smoking cigarettes are permitted, cannabis use may still be prohibited, and the rules on cannabis use in public spaces may differ from town to town. Using cannabis is completely prohibited at Connecticut state parks, state beaches, and on state waters.
In all cases, of course, possessing and using cannabis is still illegal for everyone under age 21.
Model Responsible Behavior
Even in situations where it’s permitted by state and local laws, parents are urged to avoid using cannabis in front of their children. For kids, actions speak louder than words—and children who see their parents use cannabis are more likely to use it themselves. Instead, show your kids that you can relax and have fun without substance use, and you’ll set them up to model those behaviors as they grow.
The decision not to use cannabis around your children also prioritizes their safety and well-being. Smoke (even second-hand) can contain toxic chemicals, and exposure to it may cause or exacerbate health problems in children. Most importantly, remember that cannabis impairs judgement in all users, no matter their age. When using cannabis, you could make decisions that put your children in danger without even realizing it.
Store Cannabis Properly at Home
If you do use cannabis recreationally or medicinally, always ensure that you store it properly—in accordance with Connecticut law, and to keep your family safe. Products should be kept in their original containers, and then ideally stored in lock boxes. Whether you choose a container with a key or a combination lock, this extra barrier keeps the cannabis out of your children’s reach as well as out of their sight (and thus hopefully, out of their minds). This step is especially important for edibles, which younger children may mistake for candy or snacks.
If you can’t use a lock box, it’s crucial to know what cannabis products you have stored at home, as well as how much of each. Keep an up-to-date list somewhere only you can access, such as on your phone. This gives you a way to confirm that you’re the only one accessing and using your supply, and will be helpful if you need to call the Poison Control Center or seek medical attention should your child (or pet) ingest your cannabis.
Set Clear Rules About Cannabis Use
Although talking about cannabis with your teen or adolescent can be awkward or difficult at first, it’s essential to clearly communicate your expectations. You might start by mentioning the legal status of cannabis, and reiterate that it’s still illegal for those under 21. However, for most kids, legal status matters less than their parents’ approval or disapproval. Make sure your children know exactly how you feel—and tell them why.
After the legalization of cannabis in other states, parents reported feeling hesitant to be as strict about marijuana as they were about alcohol and other substances. If you find yourself in this boat, commit to learning more before discussing it with your kids. Today’s cannabis is higher in potency than in decades past, and we have more information available than ever before—so the risks and dangers may surprise you. For instance, we now know that cannabis use can cause significant, irreversible changes in the brain, which continues developing until about age 25.
With this in mind, clearly state your household rules about cannabis to your children, as well as the specific consequences for breaking these rules, and then discuss them often. By setting clear rules and fostering open communication about a difficult topic, you’re letting your kids know that they can come to you with questions—and you’ll be able to empower them to make safe, healthy choices.